Alphy Johnson

8/6/20232 min read

Having a fulfilling life is a deeply personal and subjective goal that can vary greatly from one person to person. Life is a dynamic journey that offers countless opportunities for growth, exploration, and self-discovery. This concept encourages us to break free from societal norms and expectations to craft our own unique paths. Through introspection, experiences, and conscious choices, we can mold ourselves into the people we aspire to become.

However, there are some general principles and practices that can contribute to a sense of fulfillment and well-being.

Here are a few tips to follow one’s dream:

Self-discovery - the core of creation: We need to indulge in self-reflection to unearth the raw materials of our self-creation – the passions, skills, and attributes that form the foundation of our individuality.

Set meaningful goals: Identify what truly matters to you and set goals aligned with your values. These goals can be related to your career, relationships, personal growth, health, or any other aspect of life that brings you satisfaction.

Cultivate positive relationships: Surround yourself with supportive and positive people who uplift and encourage you. Building and maintaining strong relationships can provide a sense of belonging and emotional well-being.

Embracing change and growth: Life’s journey is marked by change and growth. Embracing these changes is essential to move forward in life. Challenges, setbacks, and victories are opportunities for growth. Just as a sculptor chisels a rock to make it into a beautiful statue an aspirer should undergo the pain and refinement to discover himself.

Breaking the societal mold: Society often imposes predefined roles and expectations on individuals due to certain customs and traditions which already exist. These customs and traditions prevent individuals to chase their dream and most of them go to the grave with the song still in them. One should be ready to discover hidden talents and use them optimally. Each person is a canvas waiting to be drawn and painted.

Overcoming fear and doubt: An achiever has to boldly confront fears and risks that might hinder his way forward. Fear and criticism can deter a person from chasing his dream. Overcoming these scary feelings only can make us reach our satisfying destination.

Learning from diversity: Interacting with a diverse range of people, cultures, and perspectives enriches our journey of life. By working on the insights of others, we can refine our thoughts and beliefs. This continuous learning would help us evolve and promote dynamism in life.

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’ life. Don’t let the noise of other's opinions drown your inner voice, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. It’s one life, it’s your life, take charge, live it your way, your style. You are important! People say, you need to be trained and taught life lessons, how to lead it the qualitative way but trust me, you know what is best for you.

So dream big and live it king size and remember you can, you will!!